Define your ideal customer

When I ask any of the small businesses that I speak to who their ideal client is, the majority still say ‘everyone’. My second question is then along the lines of “When you create marketing content – who are you aiming to engage with then?”

Before you even start to write that blog, LinkedIn post or Facebook advert – the very first step in your marketing should be to define your ideal client.


Because today’s marketing has got to be relevant and timely for the recipient, so marketing to everyone pretty much means engaging with no-one!

It’s not easy to do

Many small businesses say defining their ideal client is one of the things that they really struggle with. I cannot emphasise enough that you should not do any marketing without first knowing who it is you want to market too.

Even when small businesses do focus on certain client types, they are still not defining them closely enough so they end up attracting clients that, if truth be told, they don’t really want to work with. Here’s an example:

I had lunch with some small business owners one of whom is a Hypnotherapist. Although this lady does specialise in some particular areas, she still thought that potentially ‘anyone’ was her potential client. She then mentioned how many smokers she gets enquiries from and that most of them are attempting to give up because someone else wants them too – such as partner, kids, family. While explaining this, her whole attitude became quite negative as it was obvious that she got zero satisfaction out of working with these people. So, I raised the point that working with those types of clients was not her ideal as she do not get any enjoyment and/or much success in working with them. The penny started to drop then as while she wanted to target those who wanted to stop smoking, the marketing messages needed to change to engage with those who were truly interested in giving up for themselves, not anyone else.

Focus on what you are passionate about in your business

This is another element often overlooked when defining your ideal client. You not only want to focus on attracting clients who need your particular service or product but you should also be attracting the ones where you get to do the type of work you truly enjoy and are passionate about!

Small businesses don’t necessarily intend to be all things to all people; it often just happens from a lack of focus and a prospect on the phone asking for some help in an area that’s not their real specialism or the work they enjoy the most. The driver is they need to pay the bills and need to get some more work through the door to do that.

While it may seem great to take these clients on board, if that client isn’t a good fit, it can actually stunt any real growth. In some cases, trying to work with clients who are not ideal can lead to such a bad experience for both you and them that you actually create vocal critics for your business – it’s all too easy to give bad feedback via social media or Google reviews. While I’ve not had any bad reviews, I’ve been guilty of working with clients who are not a good fit for my business – it’s a very easy trap to fall into when you’ve got bills to pay but in the mid to long term it just creates a lot of frustration and no job satisfaction either.

Get really niche!

Most small businesses are best suited to serve a narrowly defined market – a sweet spot. This doesn’t mean the sweet spot won’t grow, evolve and change altogether as the business develops, but at any given time there is an ideal client (and maybe 2-3 variations of that ideal) for the majority of small businesses.

The trick is to discover who they are in the most specific way possible, and then build your entire marketing strategy around attracting them.

How to define your ideal client

You will need to begin by profiling them, this will help you develop your marketing content as you will understand how your service or product can help them to achieve their specific goals.

  • Pick no more than 1-3 variations of your ideal client – be specific and realistic – they should have many common traits
  • Think about the ones you have loved working with and why
  • Think about when its not been a great experience
  • Focus on how your service/product can help them resolve their pain points – time-poor, stressed, no processes
  • Then focus on how your service/product will make them feel (pleasure point) – calm, organised, free to do things they love
  • Be as targeted as you can be – age, where they live, lifestyle, finance – even give them a name

If you don’t have your ideal client defined as something much more specific than ‘everyone’ then it’s time to take action!

However, as a small business owner, I know your time is precious, so instead of you working harder, let’s get your marketing working harder for you!

How I hear you ask?

Complete my training course ‘How to define your Ideal Client’ and in just 3-4 hours you will get crystal clear on:

• What their pain points are – what keeps them awake at night
• How your service can help them overcome those
• The messages to use to engage and attract them to want to know more.

The result? No more tumbleweed when you publish your content!
Marketing stops being something that generates no results and starts being something that helps you get more clients signed up for your services.

If you are happy to work at your own pace to fit around your work and life commitments and you like to learn in bite-sized steps then this course is the answer.

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